Asked by Anonymous
Babes, being gay NEVER is NOT OKAY! It doesn’t matter, if you love girls or boys, because not your gender, sex matter, FEELINGS MATTER. Your GOOD HEART. TRUE LOVE to someone. For me LOVE DOESN’T HAVE GENDER. LOVE IS LOVE, Babes, and if you love your best friend? Then there’s NO ONE on the whole wide world, who has ANY RIGHTS to say something BAD about that! It’s your life, your feelings, be faithful to your heart, be comfortable with this, whom you love and never let anyone to push you away from that! Because only following your heart, you’re able to be faithful to your feels, your wants and your needs! Not only when I speak about love and sex, but when I speak about everything, what ‘makes’ you - THE VERY YOU.
To be honest, I don’t know, if you’re lesbian and you’re into your best friend, I’m not you, I don’t ‘sit’ into your head and heart, Hon… If you feel that way? Then it’s all good, but I think you need to give yourself some time to figure out, if you really are into girls, or it’s just that your best friend is someone so special and unique, so close to your heart, that you feel a bit confused by all the feels deep down your heart. I love my best friend, she’s the best and she means world to me, but it doesn’t make me gay. I don’t crave her, I don’t find her attractive to me (sorry Babe, you know you’re the most beautiful person all over the world <3), she doesn’t ‘work’ for me in any sexual/love/affection way. I love her, but as my sister, my best friend, my person. There’s no sexual/love/relationship vibes involved. Even I’d do anything to her. But that’s it. Is it the same for you? Or you find your best friend truly attractive for you? And you wish you could touch her, kiss her? Like a girl? Not just your friend? I think it’s something, you need to figure out on your own, listening to your heart…
Like I said, I’m not lesbian, but maybe between my followers is someone, who can say something more, about discovering who you’re and whom you crave, especially, when we speak about loving someone the same gender, since I always was into boys; they fascinated me, I competed with them, looked up at them. When I was growing up, I had my first crushes, first love, first sexual vibes, nees, wants. So I’ve always somehow knew, that I’m into boys. They work for me, I want boys, I fall for boys. But if you till now always felt the same and now thanks to your best friend you feel like you could be into girls? Then you should really give yourself some time to figure things out. Because as I said, it’s maybe the fact she’s so close to you, that “messes” with your heart and head. You need to aks your own heart, what kind of feels you have toward her, if you love her as your best friend, or you can imagine yourself with her, you want to be with her, you want to be her girlfriend, not ‘just’ friend…
You’re still such a young girlie, there’s still so much before you, you know? Don’t make any kind of pressure on yourself, don’t stress yourself up. You’re teenager, a really young one and there’s still few years to figure out whom you’re, what you want, what you need. Don’t make any pressure on yourself, explore, find your own path and follow it, okay? And no matter, if you love girls or boys?
YOU’RE YOUR VERY OWN. VERY BEAUTIFUL SELF. BECAUSE YOU’RE BEAUTIFUL PERSON. Sex? Gender? Your preferences? DON’T DEFINE YOU. YOUR HEART, MIND AND SOUL DO! Please, remember about that, okay? And if you’re going to ever need someone to talk with? I’m here! Take care, Hon, okay? xoxo
Maybe it’s going to help some of you somehow too, so whenever you feel you need to talk? Message me, please & I’ll try to do my best! <3
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